An Odyssey

Every year, a few oblivious aspirants, crack SSC, and choose the highly coveted post of DA. Since there is no clear structure, it is difficult for the aspirant to understand his KRA's and also to prepare for the upcoming qualifier exam, also known as DAGE. Having gone and still going through the same rigamarole, I decided to try and create a walkthrough for the uninformed. Immediately after the joining and documentation, one is posted in any of the divisions of the chosen stage. Here one has up to an average of 2 years of the probationary period to crack the Divisional Accountant Department Examination. Though you will easily find other details online and through your peers, it is more challenging to find the relevant study material for the same. I shall guide you on the same. There are 5 subjects, and thus 5 papers 1. Essay or Precis and Draft, and Grammar 2. Elementary book-keeping T.S. Grewal's Double Entry Book Keeping: Financial Accounting Textbook for CBSE Class 11 3. Pub...

Narcissists, or people suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, are individuals, who because of childhood trauma, develop a deep feeling of shame and permanently low self-esteem. Unable to bear the feeling of worthlessness, they unknowingly suppress their true self and replace it with a false self. A captivating persona that thrives on the admiration and attention of others. Their entire life revolves around themselves and the constant refueling of the emptying well of self-worth. Even the most well-meaning criticism breaks them, because of their already dwindling self-esteem. Since they cannot take any more hits against themselves, they direct all blame outwards, to everyone around them. They can never love anyone selflessly. But they may think that they love someone as long as that person consistently makes them feel good about themselves. Narcissists naturally gravitate towards Empaths and Codependents, as both types are designed to please and shower attenti...